What a Christmas. Graham (Jules's dad), Lisa (sister-in law), and Sandra (Jules's Aunty) came over for Christmas Day. Graham arrived from South Africa last Tuesday week (18th) and is staying till the new year. Lisa came over on the evening of the 24th. Anyway, the 25th was a good day. We all opened our presents, and then had a large lunch followed by Christmas pudding. It was all good.
Monday 31 December 2007
New Year
I am now on holiday. I will be spending New Year at home with Jules, Graham and Sandra.
Tomorrow we (Jules and I) go on holiday.
I would like to wish all who read this a very merry and wonderful New Year.
Next year I hope to change the theme of this journal, so it may be a week or two before I get going on it.
Have a good New year
Friday 21 December 2007
My Birthday and work Christmas lunch
Even though its my birthday today, I still had to go to work... shame....
But, we still went out for Christmas lunch and the local pub. Food good and the company good too.
Here we have Vasi, Nick, Fivos, Ian, George, Sabina and John.
And here Vasi is taking the photo.
And now I'm on holiday for 5, yes 5 days. Yay.
Wednesday 5 December 2007
Todays blessing
Yesterday, Jules wasn't feeling very well at all. she had been sick a few time through the night and felt delicate throughout the day. Last night we prayed for healing. and this morning Jules is feeling much much better, far more than expected. Praise God.
Tuesday 4 December 2007
This week
Well, Sandra, Jules's aunt has moved out into her own place in Enfield. I am slowly making friends at work. Jules isn't feeling too well at the moment so we're not too sure if we'll make her work Xmas dinner on Friday. I hope we do.
Looking forward to tomorrow (Wednesday) evening as we're (Jubilee Church home groups) are meeting near Chingford. Should be good.
More later in the week when I have more time...
Thursday 29 November 2007
The Pond (Stoney Cove at sunset)
The Pond (Stoney Cove at sunset)
Originally uploaded by james4coffee
Sunset at the end of a good days diving, we had all passed, yey.
This is the lake (ex-quarry) where we dived. It is quite beautiful, below the water as well as above.
Next stop, diving with sharks off the coast of South Africa....
Between dives (Second day)
Between dives (Second day)
Originally uploaded by james4coffee
This was on a Saturday morning... boy was it cold...
Between dives (First day)
Between dives (First day)
Originally uploaded by james4coffee
A pleasant Monday morning...
This was after the first dive and waiting with egger anticipation for the next chilling episode...
Wednesday 28 November 2007
In the water
In the water
Originally uploaded by james4coffee
This was taken on November 12th at Stoney Cove. It was cold although we were waring semi-dry suits.
The second two
The second two dives for my Padi certificate was last weekend (Saturday). Sam and I drove up. We left home at 4:30am and arrived at Stoney Cove at about 6:45ish (I think). After waiting to get in, there was a long cue of cars before us waiting in the car park, we parked up in the lower car park, next to the water. We didn't have this problem last time because it was a Monday, and not many people go diving on a Monday. So a little wait with a coffee. Then kitted up and into the water. It was so cold... still, we did what was necessary and out for a cuppa. After a break, it was back in for the final time, and after, we were all smiles and hand-shakes and well dones as Andy explained to us the we'd all passed. Hurrah.
So now, two on the course are off to Oz for a bit of the reef. Another is off to Maritius, and I'm off to South Africa with Jules to dive with the sharks (friendly ones mind!)
November, the beginning
It's well through November and I've said very little...
As you might of guessed, November has been rather busy. At the beginning, I had to go to Dudley in the West Midlands for a days training with Computeach. Their facility there was quite impressive.
Then a few days later I did the first two of four open water dives for the Padi certificate. This turned out to be a rather cold time as we set off on a Monday morning for Stoney Cove, a dive centre and ex-quarry full of water. After sorting out a few things like hiring the semi dry suits, we got kitted up went to the water. It was freezing. A shock to the system. All of us felt it. Andy, our instructor said he felt the cold, but he was in a dry suit which happens to have a good layer of insulation. I think he was saying that so we didn't feel to bad... At the end of the two dives we retired to the bar after cleaning up and putting away the kit. The cold didn't go for a couple of days. A two week wait for the next two dives...
On the following Wednesday I started my new work at Chase Farm Hospital. The work is so different and yet the same as when I was at Smiths Medical. It is a much better environment because the attitude is far different. Get the job done and everyone's happy. At the moment, there is no 'time management' or time analysis which means there is far less pressure in the work place. The work still gets done.
Saturday 17 November 2007
So much
So much has happened over the last couple of weeks I haven't had time to write up anything. I will over the next day or so write up what has happen. as a little flavour, I went diving, drove to Dudley and started a new job....
Wednesday 31 October 2007
Last day
Today is the last day at my present job. Brought in some doughnuts and cookies for everyone. The main thing I am looking forward to is not having to get up at 5:30 each morning. Although I am sure I'll still wake at 5:30 for next few days! I am sad (well, slightly) to leave this job as I have enjoyed working here. Of course there have been problems and as usual with large companies the bureaucracy is phenomenal, along with internal politics and personal snipping, but overall, it has been good. There is a good sense of team and a genuine willingness to help. The biggest problem for me has been the distance. Driving 50 miles round trip may not sound too bad, and it isn't really, its just that most of it is on the M25 motorway, which as some of you know is sometimes a carpark when there is either too many vehicles or an accident. And this is what makes the job tiring. I know others have a harder life, worse job, longer hours, further to travel, so I consider it a real blessing that I now have a new job closer to home and with more standard hours.
Monday 29 October 2007
Ecto
I've been using ecto for a while now, and now a new "beta version" has been released to try. And I'm using it now. It is such an improvement over the previous, I'm delighted. So, what is ecto? Ecto is an application that lets you type up a post for a blog off-line, or on-line, edit it fully, and then publish it when its ready. So handy. At the moment, the new version only works on the Mac, but the old works on windows. I don't know if the new version will be made available for windows. Oh, before I forget, ecto isn't free, the guy who spent many hours putting this together needs to eat...
Oh joy...
An other great weekend has just passed by, sadly far too quickly. Jubilee Church was blessed on Sunday by Steve Tibbert from Kings Church, Catford (that would be South London). His sermon on Guidance can be heard or downloaded here
So a new week starts, and I'm sitting in my car in the car park at work. Oh joy! Well, this is joy of a type as this is my last week here, well, when I say week, I mean last few days as my last day is Wednesday. Then I move on. I have two weeks rest before starting my new job at a hospital. Jules and I are looking forward to not waking at 5:30 each morning. Oh joy.
Thursday 25 October 2007
The weekend
Sandra wanted to buy a laptop, so we all went down to Tottenham Court Road in London to have a look. The shops down there were still doing the cheap deals, and after about an hour or so looking at laptops and going from one shop to another, we found one, a Levano for a good price.
Getting to and from Tottenham Court Road was another story as the tube (London Underground) had delays and lots of people trying to travel. Going from home to Liverpool Street Station was fine. I do, however, consider that we had a good run on it as we didn't have to wait too long for each train and the carriage wasn't over-crowded either.
Getting to and from Tottenham Court Road was another story as the tube (London Underground) had delays and lots of people trying to travel. Going from home to Liverpool Street Station was fine. I do, however, consider that we had a good run on it as we didn't have to wait too long for each train and the carriage wasn't over-crowded either.
Sunday afternoon
Scuba diving with a dry suit.
On Sunday afternoon I tried out diving in a dry-suit, in the swimming pool. It was quite an interesting experience. The dry-suit works by keep all the water out. It can be "inflated" with air, to create a cushion of insulation. Buoyancy was fun too, cos as you inflate, you can turn yourself up-side-down and be suspended by your feet, mind you, trying to get the right way up is a bit of a struggle.
On Sunday afternoon I tried out diving in a dry-suit, in the swimming pool. It was quite an interesting experience. The dry-suit works by keep all the water out. It can be "inflated" with air, to create a cushion of insulation. Buoyancy was fun too, cos as you inflate, you can turn yourself up-side-down and be suspended by your feet, mind you, trying to get the right way up is a bit of a struggle.
Monday 22 October 2007
Sunday morning
This Sunday was a marvelous day. The weather was sunny and bright, but with a cold start. I am part of the "set-up" team for Jubilee Church, who meet in a cinema in Enfield, and Sunday morning was a little different. There were baptisms. This wasn't the "sprinkling" that some churches do, but a full emerson baptism. So, the set up of a "bath" with heated water was interesting and a challenge that the team rose to, and succeeded. I arrived to set up the audio at the usual time to find the "font" in place and full of lovely hot water. All that was needed now was a bottle of bubble bath...
Besides a few hiccups, all went smoothly. Six were baptised and Tope spoke about singing to God which can be heard here. It was a wonderful, blessed morning.
Besides a few hiccups, all went smoothly. Six were baptised and Tope spoke about singing to God which can be heard here. It was a wonderful, blessed morning.
Saturday 20 October 2007
PDA and an organised life
I've been considering using a PDA to help organise my life, my ordinary day to day life that is, just so that I know when I will be going on holiday, when Alpha is on, and not to forget my wedding anniversary! I had tried this before but found that it didn't work too well, nor did an ordinary diary for that matter. This, I think, was due to my life style and that having and living a chaotic life, and not putting in place some sense of order so that it can be managed, meant that this was doomed to failure.
Now, my life has changed some what, like being married and a normal job and having holidays etc. I think the diary/pda would work. So I dug out my old pda, a Sharp Zaurus SL5500. An interesting machine that has a built in keyboard, which is quite usable, so much so that it surprised me. I bought this device in 2002 in Singapore mainly because it used Linux as its operating system. I tend to dislike Microsoft products since I've found them either to have bugs or they don't do what they're meant to do. Anyway, I've installed another linux system onto the Zaurus called Openzaurus, developed by a small group of enthusiasts which comes with different options, applications and themes. As standard it come with the usual calendar, address book and stuff, also audio and visual stuff. There are also websites out there which have loads of other stuff for the Zaurus, wireless cards and the such like, most of which work straight out of the box. The only problem now is that the up-dates for it are few and far between, if at all. Which is a shame as it is a good device. So I shall use this to see if it works, and if it does, update it with a newer device (also running linux or may be Palm?).
Now, my life has changed some what, like being married and a normal job and having holidays etc. I think the diary/pda would work. So I dug out my old pda, a Sharp Zaurus SL5500. An interesting machine that has a built in keyboard, which is quite usable, so much so that it surprised me. I bought this device in 2002 in Singapore mainly because it used Linux as its operating system. I tend to dislike Microsoft products since I've found them either to have bugs or they don't do what they're meant to do. Anyway, I've installed another linux system onto the Zaurus called Openzaurus, developed by a small group of enthusiasts which comes with different options, applications and themes. As standard it come with the usual calendar, address book and stuff, also audio and visual stuff. There are also websites out there which have loads of other stuff for the Zaurus, wireless cards and the such like, most of which work straight out of the box. The only problem now is that the up-dates for it are few and far between, if at all. Which is a shame as it is a good device. So I shall use this to see if it works, and if it does, update it with a newer device (also running linux or may be Palm?).
Wednesday 17 October 2007
A welcome visitor
This morning (Tuesday) Jules set off with Lisa to collect from Heathrow their aunt, Sandra, who will be staying with us for a while. Sandra's plan is to move here so we'll be be helping her to find a place to live and find a job. Basically to help her settle in to English life. She has lived most of her life in South Africa, so the weather is going to be the first shock, just hope she brings some African weather with her... The other will probably be the culture shock. Sandra visited the UK many years ago, and I know that things have changed since.
Friday 12 October 2007
The end of a long week
Its been a long, long week. While waiting at the beginning of the week for a job offer, I started, in earnest, the web design course. That would of been ok if it wasn't for the fact that I have been having trouble setting it up on the computer. It works fine now, but, boy, what a struggle. Why do people assume that everyone only uses MS Windows and not cater for Mac's OSX or even Linux. The course teaches on the other OS's but doesn't cater for them. Phewey.
On a brighter note, as you might of already read, I've been offered a job, and I've accepted it. I finish officially on 9th November and start my new position on the 14th. So I have a few days to sort a few things out like Xmas present for my dear wife :-)
I have also been thinking about getting a PDA to help organise my time, but when looking at the specs, it seems as though they haven't come very far in the last few years. I'm not sure what I was hoping to find, but when compared to an old one I have sitting in a box, I only have to get a wifi card and I'm done! All the software I need I can get off the internet for free.
I am looking forward to a good weekend, with a bit of relaxing and a bit of hard work!!
On a brighter note, as you might of already read, I've been offered a job, and I've accepted it. I finish officially on 9th November and start my new position on the 14th. So I have a few days to sort a few things out like Xmas present for my dear wife :-)
I have also been thinking about getting a PDA to help organise my time, but when looking at the specs, it seems as though they haven't come very far in the last few years. I'm not sure what I was hoping to find, but when compared to an old one I have sitting in a box, I only have to get a wifi card and I'm done! All the software I need I can get off the internet for free.
I am looking forward to a good weekend, with a bit of relaxing and a bit of hard work!!
Wednesday 10 October 2007
New Job
I can now announce that I have been offered a new job, which I have accepted. So today I handed in my notice and look forward to the last month of having to get up at 5:30 each morning! Which in the summer is really quite pleasant, but in the winter turns into a bit of a chore. Anyway, I am a little sad to leave this job as my fellow workers are really a quite a good bunch and the work is enjoyable. My new job is much of the same, but with a greater variety of products, and closer to home :-)
Saturday 6 October 2007
A new course -update
Last night I went on and "Orientation Meeting" to start a new course. I was mainly to introduce other students in the area doing the same course and to introduce us to the software which will help us through the course.
The ice breaker was interesting, After collecting a chocolate and "pairing up" we had to go through a list of likes and dislikes to find out a bit out him/her and introduce them to the rest of the group. The headings on the list included "what would you put into room 101", "3 items you''d take to a desert island", "future aims". The answers given where really quite interesting. Here's a selection:
For room 101: Religion, cos it caused wars; flies; ex-girl friend;
For the desert island: Laptop; women; booze; food; x-box (with TV) (And as the instructor commented "may be some haven't got the idea of a desert island!")
Likes: Money; "gadgets"; music
Dislikes:
Future aims: To make money; be happy; leave the country
Mine, for those interested where
Room 101: pollution, the "nanny culture",
Desert Island: my wife, my Bible, Swiss Army Penknife
Likes: Music and motorcycle
Future aims: Balloon ride over a wildlife park in Africa, Scuba dive some coral reefs,
I wasn't amazed that money came high up on peoples list, but at the intensity of the "like", especially from the younger people. Its as though their life is centered around making money and nothing else. That was their purpose in life... shame.
I am looking forward to the rest of the course and as to where it will lead me.... time will tell.... watch this space.
The ice breaker was interesting, After collecting a chocolate and "pairing up" we had to go through a list of likes and dislikes to find out a bit out him/her and introduce them to the rest of the group. The headings on the list included "what would you put into room 101", "3 items you''d take to a desert island", "future aims". The answers given where really quite interesting. Here's a selection:
For room 101: Religion, cos it caused wars; flies; ex-girl friend;
For the desert island: Laptop; women; booze; food; x-box (with TV) (And as the instructor commented "may be some haven't got the idea of a desert island!")
Likes: Money; "gadgets"; music
Dislikes:
Future aims: To make money; be happy; leave the country
Mine, for those interested where
Room 101: pollution, the "nanny culture",
Desert Island: my wife, my Bible, Swiss Army Penknife
Likes: Music and motorcycle
Future aims: Balloon ride over a wildlife park in Africa, Scuba dive some coral reefs,
I wasn't amazed that money came high up on peoples list, but at the intensity of the "like", especially from the younger people. Its as though their life is centered around making money and nothing else. That was their purpose in life... shame.
I am looking forward to the rest of the course and as to where it will lead me.... time will tell.... watch this space.
Wednesday 3 October 2007
Dave Pask
Yesterday, Daivd Pask was brought into eldership. Wonderful blessing for Jubilee Church. Peter Vincent talked about leadership and eldership here before praying for Dave, and then the eldership team. Colin Potter was also involved.
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My malapropism
I was reading some sayings when i can across:
The ideals of a country are reflected in the advertisements
But read it as:
The idols of a country are infested in their advertisements
Which I don't think is too far from the truth...
The ideals of a country are reflected in the advertisements
But read it as:
The idols of a country are infested in their advertisements
Which I don't think is too far from the truth...
A new course
Last night I went on and "Orientation Meeting" to start a new course. I was mainly to introduce other students in the area doing the same course and to introduce us to the software which will help us through the course.
The ice breaker was interesting, After collecting a chocolate and "pairing up" we had to go through a list of likes and dislikes to find out a bit out him/her and introduce them to the rest of the group. The headings on the list included "what would you put into room 101", "3 items you''d take to a desert island", "future aims". The answers given where really quite interesting. Here's a selection:
For room 101: Religion, cos it caused wars; flies; ex-girl friend;
For the desert island: Laptop; women; booze; food; x-box (with TV)
Likes: Money; "gadgets"; music
Dislikes:
Future aims: To make money; be happy; leave the country
The ice breaker was interesting, After collecting a chocolate and "pairing up" we had to go through a list of likes and dislikes to find out a bit out him/her and introduce them to the rest of the group. The headings on the list included "what would you put into room 101", "3 items you''d take to a desert island", "future aims". The answers given where really quite interesting. Here's a selection:
For room 101: Religion, cos it caused wars; flies; ex-girl friend;
For the desert island: Laptop; women; booze; food; x-box (with TV)
Likes: Money; "gadgets"; music
Dislikes:
Future aims: To make money; be happy; leave the country
Monday 10 September 2007
A lovely weekend
It's now Monday morning and the sun has just poked his head over the horizon and I have a few minutes to reflect on the weekend. Saturday was a good day, Jules and I managed to achieve most of what we set out to do. The prayer meeting was good. God was so present, it really set up the rest of the weekend. We are so blessed with a wonderful church and leaders/ elders. Our lives would be so dull without the church of Jesus. Well, scripture says that Jesus came to give us not only life, but life abundantly.
Sunday was also a wonderful day. Neither Jules or I were on set-up so we have coffee in bed and just enjoyed each others company, talking together and being together. It was a little bit like being on holiday. Then Church. Wonderful. We had a new "band" leading us in worship, and they were very good. I think this surprised some, but didn't detract from the main subject of worship and God blessed us. Tope Koleoso spoke on Gods amazing Grace with the subject if "Chosen by God". Really good.You can get it at Jubilee Church Sermons along with some other sermons we've been blessed with.
Sunday was also a wonderful day. Neither Jules or I were on set-up so we have coffee in bed and just enjoyed each others company, talking together and being together. It was a little bit like being on holiday. Then Church. Wonderful. We had a new "band" leading us in worship, and they were very good. I think this surprised some, but didn't detract from the main subject of worship and God blessed us. Tope Koleoso spoke on Gods amazing Grace with the subject if "Chosen by God". Really good.You can get it at Jubilee Church Sermons along with some other sermons we've been blessed with.
Friday 7 September 2007
Strange news
This week there have been some strange news items...
A man was charged with damaging a police car after the police car had mounted the pavement and run over his foot braking some bones... he was given the ticket while he was in A & E...
An MEP was found guilty of fraud and jailed for 9 months but still keeps his job as MEP and still gets paid...
A man was charged with damaging a police car after the police car had mounted the pavement and run over his foot braking some bones... he was given the ticket while he was in A & E...
An MEP was found guilty of fraud and jailed for 9 months but still keeps his job as MEP and still gets paid...
Tuesday 4 September 2007
Scuba Diving
After another wonderful Sunday morning at church, Jules and I rushed home to collect our things and then off to the local baths (swimming pool) to have our first lesson in scuba diving. Jules is already qualified so for her its just a refresher, but me me, I can swim so I start at the beginning. It was really good. We spent one and a half hours under the water, having a go and succeeding at removing and replacing the mouth piece and mask, which was the most difficult. Good fun though and a good workout for the muscles!
Devon, the weekend away
In the early hours of Saturday morning Jules and I set off for our weekend away in Devon. It was still dark as we packed the Mini and drove off. The sun rose as we headed down the M3 towards Southampton. A bright round red sun rose in the rear view mirror, slowly turning orange and then too bright to look at. Blinding. The majority of cars still had their lights on. Some though didn't. The worst ones were the cars behind, and on a dual carriageway coming up to overtake you, you can't actually see them! Still, we survived the journey. Past Stonehenge in a slow moving stream of traffic, all heading in the same direction with the same intent... getting away for the weekend. It was misty and difficult to see the stones. Some of the sheep where mistaken for the stones until they moved or Jules could see more clearly. Up and down through the Blackdown Hills. Still misty, the sun still rising and the countryside still looking good....
The M5 motorway was a welcome sight. Not long to go... for a coffee. Just down the road for 2 minutes on the left was the slip road for the services and... coffee. By now it was surprisingly busy and a "fight" to get to the toilets was inevertable. With the toilets out of the way, straight to the coffee bar, "Two lattes to go please". Had to make a phone call for the second mortgage to pay for them, but it was worth it. Walked back out to the car and admired two VW camper vans of early vintage. Quite funny really, one was good looking but sounded rough and the other looked rough but sounded good and smooth. Back in the car for the final 40 minutes to Newton Abott.
We spent the day with Matthew, my brother, and his family. He, his wife, Julie, and youngest, Melmel took us into Torquay where we wondered around and had some lunch. A french market, all very expensive food (of sorts) and then icecream, umm yum yum!
The late afternoon was snooze time and then fish and chips on the sea front with Matthew, Julie, daughters and boyfriends... A really good day.
Sunday was a more relaxed affair. Breakfast at the B&B was a good full English. Jules and I then had a prayer time, this was good. Then Devon countryside beckoned. Green bushed and trees hiding wonderful waterfalls, and the views from the top, wow.
Stonehenge on the way home... we didn't pay the £7 each to look at a bunch of stones. It's not as if you can get up close and touch. Hey ho! We took some photos from the road. The drive home was uneventful.
The M5 motorway was a welcome sight. Not long to go... for a coffee. Just down the road for 2 minutes on the left was the slip road for the services and... coffee. By now it was surprisingly busy and a "fight" to get to the toilets was inevertable. With the toilets out of the way, straight to the coffee bar, "Two lattes to go please". Had to make a phone call for the second mortgage to pay for them, but it was worth it. Walked back out to the car and admired two VW camper vans of early vintage. Quite funny really, one was good looking but sounded rough and the other looked rough but sounded good and smooth. Back in the car for the final 40 minutes to Newton Abott.
We spent the day with Matthew, my brother, and his family. He, his wife, Julie, and youngest, Melmel took us into Torquay where we wondered around and had some lunch. A french market, all very expensive food (of sorts) and then icecream, umm yum yum!
The late afternoon was snooze time and then fish and chips on the sea front with Matthew, Julie, daughters and boyfriends... A really good day.
Sunday was a more relaxed affair. Breakfast at the B&B was a good full English. Jules and I then had a prayer time, this was good. Then Devon countryside beckoned. Green bushed and trees hiding wonderful waterfalls, and the views from the top, wow.
Stonehenge on the way home... we didn't pay the £7 each to look at a bunch of stones. It's not as if you can get up close and touch. Hey ho! We took some photos from the road. The drive home was uneventful.
Wednesday 29 August 2007
Water carriers
I hears this story recently:
There was a water collector from a small village who had two clay pots for collecting the water. Each day he would pick up his pots, put the carry bar on his shoulders and go to the water hole and collect the water for his village. Now, one of the pot was fine and in good condition and spilt little if any water, and the other was a little old and a bit cracked and leaked some water. For many days on the way back the good pot said to the other old pot, you are useless, "you cant do anything right, you spill and leak more water than you deliver". Each day the good pot would have a go and complain about the old pot. One day the old pot had had enough and said to his owner, "Look, I'm old and cracked and dont do my job properly and spill more water than I deliver, why don't you get rid of me and get a new pot for your water?" But the water collector said to the pot, when we come back from the water hole, have a look at the path. So, the following day the old pot looked at the path on the way back. Along the path, one side was dry and dusty, but on the side of the old pot was lush with grasses and beautiful flowers. "See", said the boy, "you bring beauty to this path, without you this path would be dry and dusty, I wouldn't get rid of you, you do a job no one else can do".
There was a water collector from a small village who had two clay pots for collecting the water. Each day he would pick up his pots, put the carry bar on his shoulders and go to the water hole and collect the water for his village. Now, one of the pot was fine and in good condition and spilt little if any water, and the other was a little old and a bit cracked and leaked some water. For many days on the way back the good pot said to the other old pot, you are useless, "you cant do anything right, you spill and leak more water than you deliver". Each day the good pot would have a go and complain about the old pot. One day the old pot had had enough and said to his owner, "Look, I'm old and cracked and dont do my job properly and spill more water than I deliver, why don't you get rid of me and get a new pot for your water?" But the water collector said to the pot, when we come back from the water hole, have a look at the path. So, the following day the old pot looked at the path on the way back. Along the path, one side was dry and dusty, but on the side of the old pot was lush with grasses and beautiful flowers. "See", said the boy, "you bring beauty to this path, without you this path would be dry and dusty, I wouldn't get rid of you, you do a job no one else can do".
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Monday 20 August 2007
The weekend
What a wonderful weekend. I spent Saturday afternoon and evening with my wife. Cooked us a meal and watched When Harry met Sally. A really good time. On Sunday at the church meeting, another person gave their life to Christ. What a wonderful day!
Adrian Warnock (Doctor) gave a really good sermon on Jacob. Talked about his (Jacobs) life and his attitude, always grabbing and cheating others wealth and processions from them. Buying his wife, then ending up with two because his was cheated. After he fought with an angel (or God) he ended up with a sore hip for the rest of his life as a reminder of his battle, and that God was sovereign and still is. But at the end of it all, God was graceful, and forgave and blessed Jacob, and we are here, able to tell this truthful story because Jacob was humbled by God, gave over to Him and became obedient to God. Is there something you are battling with God about? You should know that God always wins. What He has planned for you is better than you could do, why? Because He loves you.
Have a good week.
Adrian Warnock (Doctor) gave a really good sermon on Jacob. Talked about his (Jacobs) life and his attitude, always grabbing and cheating others wealth and processions from them. Buying his wife, then ending up with two because his was cheated. After he fought with an angel (or God) he ended up with a sore hip for the rest of his life as a reminder of his battle, and that God was sovereign and still is. But at the end of it all, God was graceful, and forgave and blessed Jacob, and we are here, able to tell this truthful story because Jacob was humbled by God, gave over to Him and became obedient to God. Is there something you are battling with God about? You should know that God always wins. What He has planned for you is better than you could do, why? Because He loves you.
Have a good week.
Sunday 19 August 2007
Exam results trrough
No, not mine, I haven't taken any exams recently. I talking about the release of the 'A' level results. I was amazed but not surprised that one in four students received an 'A' grade. This has again raised the same old questions of just how hard are the exams and how relevant are the results? Well, I would suggest from the evidence I've seen, which hasn't been much, but I think its possibly enough, that the value of 'A' levels has reduced. I don't doubt the hard work put in by students to pass the exams. My questions are just how valid are the results? Can the students use the information they've learnt? Or were they just taught how to pass an exam? (so the school can remain or raise in the league tables etc). I saw a program a little while ago which caught my eye because it involved modern day students being taught and taking the old 'O' level. The majority of the students didn't do well at all. Admittedly the students had to 'live' the time as well, with the discipline and food and life style of the time. What was interesting was that some of the students enjoyed some of the subjects because they could see what was going on, especially in chemistry and physics.
With the 'O' level the student were taught subjects in a way that they could be taught. I was taught how to learn at a young age which I have found invaluable. Now though I think students are taught how to pass an exam, with defeats the object.
With the 'O' level the student were taught subjects in a way that they could be taught. I was taught how to learn at a young age which I have found invaluable. Now though I think students are taught how to pass an exam, with defeats the object.
Friday 10 August 2007
A change of direction
I have been thinking for a while about a new career. So i had a good long hard look at what I've done and what I'd like to do and where I' like my career to go. I applied for more info on wed design courses. Over the last few days I've been chatting with the reps of three. Last night I met with one, for the Home Learning College. A pleasant lady with a rumbustious and lively personality. Very helpful. And what she told us was also backed-up by a quick search on the internet, which is something that I'd failed to do and should of done earlier. Done some more research on forums and review sites which again I should of done earlier and found a lot of information which I am still going through.... a decision will be made soon.... watch this space....
Tuesday 7 August 2007
The Silly Season
The holiday season is upon us. I also consider it to be the silly season too, and possibly the dangerous season. I was driving to work this morning and the M25 had less traffic on it. "Wonderful" I thought "I'll be able to get to work in good time and with a slightly more relaxed drive". How wrong could I be. I did get to work in good time, but slightly more relaxed... no way. Other drivers decided to take advantage of this situation by driving at break-neck speed. Dangerous would be an under-statement. If a policeman had been there with a speed camera, he'd have had a field day. It makes me wonder that when a opportunity arises to take things easy people don't, they speed up! Myself, if it come to it, I'd prefer to be 10 minutes late in this life than 10 minutes early in the next. But then I have this thing about leaving early so I don't have to rush. Everyone seems to be in a rush so they can stop. Rush, rush, rush, stop. Rush rush, rush, stop. Relentless. Pointless. Do they actually enjoy rushing to a stop, or it a compulsion?
The passing of a friend
It was with sadness I heard that a friend, Pauline Spencer, who had been battling with cancer had died on Monday. She was a wonderful God fearing lady, mother and wife and friend to many. She will be missed. What is our loss is the Lords gain.
Thursday 2 August 2007
The Purpose Driven Life
What a good book. Anyway, previously I mentioned I would be setting up a blog to write my journey through this book. This is now at planning stage and although a start time hasn't been set, it will be soon. It will also be longer than the 40 days recommended because I intend to do a summary after the 6 main sections Rick Warren mentions.
Monday 30 July 2007
This weekend
What a lovely weekend. Started with the Saturday morning prayer meeting. How wonderful to be in Gods presence with others and to see and hear of his faithfulness and grace and love abounding. He really is a truly wonderful awesome God. After some shopping, the rest of the day was spent with Jules, just being together, watching some Battlestar Galactica series one, chatting and eating together. Quality time. So good. I feel really blessed.
Sunday was similar. Church in the morning, and what a wonderful time that was. After some inspiring worship, we welcome some twenty odd into membership, which we consider be welcoming into our family, Gods family, the church. The rest of Sunday was spent with Jules. We went over to the sports centre to see if we could find someone to talk to about a diving course, but alas, no-one was available.
Sunday was similar. Church in the morning, and what a wonderful time that was. After some inspiring worship, we welcome some twenty odd into membership, which we consider be welcoming into our family, Gods family, the church. The rest of Sunday was spent with Jules. We went over to the sports centre to see if we could find someone to talk to about a diving course, but alas, no-one was available.
Friday 27 July 2007
The interview
The interview went well, Chris was friendly and direct. After a brief overview of the company, I gave a brief overview of my history work wise. Chris then gave an overview of the job and said that he thought I would be suitable for this job and with a little training and experience to go further. The hours are 6am to 6pm (12 hours shift) 4 days on and 4 days off. Sound not too bad. But... it seems to work out that for 3 weeks running you wouldn't a weekend off. Overall if I was single I would probably jump at this opportunity but I'm not and have therefore decided (after a chat with my wife) not to take this any further, but to continue to pray and to look. I have a good job and therefore I can take my time to find the right job close to home.
On a different note, I've been looking at other blogs and websites and have decided that this one needs a revamp. I have been trying out different options and will decide soon. The only thing I'm not too sure about at the moment is whether to go for 2 or 3 columns. I'd prefer 2 columns but apparently 3 columns is best. Thing is this is a blog, not and advertising website. So may be i'll go with 2 columns, looks cleaner, less cluttered and easier to read IMHO.
On a different note, I've been looking at other blogs and websites and have decided that this one needs a revamp. I have been trying out different options and will decide soon. The only thing I'm not too sure about at the moment is whether to go for 2 or 3 columns. I'd prefer 2 columns but apparently 3 columns is best. Thing is this is a blog, not and advertising website. So may be i'll go with 2 columns, looks cleaner, less cluttered and easier to read IMHO.
Thursday 26 July 2007
Job Interview
Sa some of you know, I live just north of London and work in North Watford. A round trip of 52 miles (approx 83 Kms) where in the morning I leave the house at 6:20am arriving at the work place at 7am ish. I leave work at 3:30pm and arrive home at 4:45 most days. I am grateful for this work, and I believe it is God give and I know of others who travel further then me each day to and from work. There are some differences, they love their work, mime is a job with no prospects. I enjoy it to a certain degree, had worse jobs, but, now that I'm newly married, I would like to spend quality time with my wife, not being half a sleep. I would also like to have life outside of work and do other things like a diving course, which isn't really possible at the mo. Also its difficult to invite friend home from work of dinner of even just a cuppa and a chat. Anyway, I saw this job advert and prayed about it, and applied. I hand a phone message so called back. Chris wanted to meet as soon as possible. I asked if the job was shift work, he informed me it was, to which I said that I wasn't looking for shift work as I've just got married and want to spend time with my wife and not be like passing ships in the night, to which he replied that there are other jobs and that he still wanted to meet. This will be today, Thursday and I have no idea as to what the job will be.... watch this space....
Wednesday 11 July 2007
Brighton
Jules and I arrived in Brighton for the Leaders Conference on Monday afternoon about 4pm. We booked into our hotel. The Paskins Town House is a delightful place on Charlotte Street.
The conference opened on Tuesday morning. The worship and teaching has been wonderful. Even better than last year, which was good.
The conference opened with Stephen Van Rhyn from Cape Town, South Africa, followed by Rob Rufus from Hong Kong and then Terry Virgo. Three great speakers. The talks where amazing and drenched with the power of the Holy Spirit and the Glory of God. Truly awesome. A wonderful way to open a conference, and the rest of the days there continued in the same vain. God was in the house, as some would say.
I'm not going to write about the talks, Adrian Warnock is doing that (it takes a while for his blog to load... ). You can also down load the talks for free from the New Frontiers website. Enjoy, be enriched, be blessed.
The conference opened on Tuesday morning. The worship and teaching has been wonderful. Even better than last year, which was good.
The conference opened with Stephen Van Rhyn from Cape Town, South Africa, followed by Rob Rufus from Hong Kong and then Terry Virgo. Three great speakers. The talks where amazing and drenched with the power of the Holy Spirit and the Glory of God. Truly awesome. A wonderful way to open a conference, and the rest of the days there continued in the same vain. God was in the house, as some would say.
I'm not going to write about the talks, Adrian Warnock is doing that (it takes a while for his blog to load... ). You can also down load the talks for free from the New Frontiers website. Enjoy, be enriched, be blessed.
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Friday 22 June 2007
King Edward VIII
The thing that impresses me the most about America is the way parents obey their children.
- King Edward VIII
What a wonderful quote...
And another...
People demand freedom of speech as a compensation for the freedom of thought which they seldom use.
- Soren Kierkegaard
Makes you think, n'est pas?
- King Edward VIII
What a wonderful quote...
And another...
People demand freedom of speech as a compensation for the freedom of thought which they seldom use.
- Soren Kierkegaard
Makes you think, n'est pas?
Tuesday 19 June 2007
Anguish
This morning on the radio I heard that the was going to be about 2000 prisoners released early to relieve the overcrowding. The conservatives are saying this is typical of a government who can't manage anything.
My view is that the prisons are so full because there are 400 plus more laws to break (since Labour came to be government). This government has got into the habit of "if we can't control it, we'll legislate for it". So, if you are doing something that there isn't a law letting do it or a law not letting you do it, then if the government doesn't like what you are doing, they will legislate against it so there will be a law for you to break (and you'll go to prison), and if they do like what you are doing they will legislate so you can only do it their way, which is often not the way you were doing it in the first place and so you'll break the law and go to prison. Either way, you can on doing it your way, you are likely to end up in prison.
This may seem a bit of an exaggeration, but take motorcycle helmets for example. Back in 19?? it was fine to ride a motorcycle without a helmet, or with a helmet, the choice was yours. Then because there were a few bad accidents, the government decided that the motorcyclist should ALWAYS wear a helmet, now no choice. They decided from a study done in the USA which showed that a motorcyclist involved in an accident had a better chance of survival if he/she was wearing a helmet. The problem comes when the accidents in the test study doesn't really happen in the UK. Don't get me wrong, the study was good, just its application to create legislation I find abhorrent. In small incidents and accidents, the helmet itself can cause more injury. Consider the average helmet weighs about 5kgs. Thats an extra 5kgs the neck has to deal with in keeping the head attached to the body. In some accidents the neck has been snapped because the rider was wearing a helmet. Now I could go on and debate the reason for and against wearing helmets on motorcycles, but this isn't the time or place. What I am trying to put across is the fact that these people that the minority of the population elect to govern us don't really know what they are doing.... surprised?
I feel strongly that if people are educated or informed of the relavent facts about whatever they are interested in, so they can make an informed choice. The leaders and politicians harp on about choice, but then dont give us any! Another example. There has been a steady increase in accident of motorcycles. Solution, make the test harder to create a better motorcyclist. But, the over accident rate has been going up. Why not educate drivers of all vehicles how other road users use the road. How many car driver know that a lorry or bus will pull over to the left to turn right, at a roundabout for example? How many road users know that motorcyclist are allowed by law to go down the outside of a traffic cue, if the way is clear? I was taught these when I took a motorcycle training course, but wasn't taught these for driving my car. Need I say more...
My view is that the prisons are so full because there are 400 plus more laws to break (since Labour came to be government). This government has got into the habit of "if we can't control it, we'll legislate for it". So, if you are doing something that there isn't a law letting do it or a law not letting you do it, then if the government doesn't like what you are doing, they will legislate against it so there will be a law for you to break (and you'll go to prison), and if they do like what you are doing they will legislate so you can only do it their way, which is often not the way you were doing it in the first place and so you'll break the law and go to prison. Either way, you can on doing it your way, you are likely to end up in prison.
This may seem a bit of an exaggeration, but take motorcycle helmets for example. Back in 19?? it was fine to ride a motorcycle without a helmet, or with a helmet, the choice was yours. Then because there were a few bad accidents, the government decided that the motorcyclist should ALWAYS wear a helmet, now no choice. They decided from a study done in the USA which showed that a motorcyclist involved in an accident had a better chance of survival if he/she was wearing a helmet. The problem comes when the accidents in the test study doesn't really happen in the UK. Don't get me wrong, the study was good, just its application to create legislation I find abhorrent. In small incidents and accidents, the helmet itself can cause more injury. Consider the average helmet weighs about 5kgs. Thats an extra 5kgs the neck has to deal with in keeping the head attached to the body. In some accidents the neck has been snapped because the rider was wearing a helmet. Now I could go on and debate the reason for and against wearing helmets on motorcycles, but this isn't the time or place. What I am trying to put across is the fact that these people that the minority of the population elect to govern us don't really know what they are doing.... surprised?
I feel strongly that if people are educated or informed of the relavent facts about whatever they are interested in, so they can make an informed choice. The leaders and politicians harp on about choice, but then dont give us any! Another example. There has been a steady increase in accident of motorcycles. Solution, make the test harder to create a better motorcyclist. But, the over accident rate has been going up. Why not educate drivers of all vehicles how other road users use the road. How many car driver know that a lorry or bus will pull over to the left to turn right, at a roundabout for example? How many road users know that motorcyclist are allowed by law to go down the outside of a traffic cue, if the way is clear? I was taught these when I took a motorcycle training course, but wasn't taught these for driving my car. Need I say more...
Monday 18 June 2007
Marriage
What a wonderful weekend. Most of this weekend was spent celebrating the 50th (Golden) wedding anniversary of Mike and Daphne Taverner. I first met Mike and Daphne in 2001 when I came from Kent to Enfield/ Chingford to do a "Year Team" with Jubilee Church. They very kindly and graciously put me up for the year. They looked after me (and still do) with God given humble hearts. It was a joy and a privilege to stay with them and still is to know them.
They are a testimony and an inspiration to all marriages.
PICTURE
They are a testimony and an inspiration to all marriages.
PICTURE
Friday 15 June 2007
The heart of mission - Compassion
On Sunday Tope preached on mission and compassion. An inspirational talk, which can be downloaded here. The compassion of God is shown to good effect in the book of Jonah. Although this is a short book of only 4 chapters, there is a lot in it. In chapter 4, God demonstrates his compassion for the lost, the gentiles even, to Jonah, by sparing them, and although God isn't accountable, He showed Jonah the reason why through the use of a plant and a worm! Why? because Jonah was angry that God hadn't punished the people of Nineveh for being wicked, but gave them the option of repenting and turning away from the evil ways.
Bringing this to today, Jesus demonstrated a compassion for the lost all through his ministry (????? ), and as Jesus said "Go therefore, and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them into the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit: 20 teaching them to observe all things that I commanded you: and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the world." (Matthew 28:19-20) we are to follow in similar ways...
Biblical Missions: The starting point is a heart of compassion, compassion for the lost.
Rewards: 1. Co-labourers with God (1Cor 3:9) 2. Peace from God as you go (Matt 28:20) 3. Cultivate a heart for people, loving like Jesus 4. Cultivate a heart of gratitude.
Bringing this to today, Jesus demonstrated a compassion for the lost all through his ministry (????? ), and as Jesus said "Go therefore, and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them into the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit: 20 teaching them to observe all things that I commanded you: and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the world." (Matthew 28:19-20) we are to follow in similar ways...
Biblical Missions: The starting point is a heart of compassion, compassion for the lost.
Rewards: 1. Co-labourers with God (1Cor 3:9) 2. Peace from God as you go (Matt 28:20) 3. Cultivate a heart for people, loving like Jesus 4. Cultivate a heart of gratitude.
The Purpose Driven Life
By Rick Warren.
A great book, worth reading more then once. Charles Spurgeon read Pilgrims Progress by Bunyon once a year as it reminded him of the Christian life. Although I am no Charles Spurgeon, I do have on thing in common with the great preacher, we both welcome guidance to remain on the path. And I would consider this book to be in that category of "to be read often".
At the outset, Rick makes no apologies for stating that this book will guide you on a spiritual journey, where by the end you will now Gods purpose for your life, and you'll understand the big picture - how it all fits together.
In a short time from now I will be going through A Purpose Driven Life. I have set up a blog so I can publish my thoughts and consequences of this book. You can follow my journey HERE and I would welcome your comments (so long as they are publishable!).
UPDATE
It will now be slightly longer than a short while due to other commitments....
Watch this space....
A great book, worth reading more then once. Charles Spurgeon read Pilgrims Progress by Bunyon once a year as it reminded him of the Christian life. Although I am no Charles Spurgeon, I do have on thing in common with the great preacher, we both welcome guidance to remain on the path. And I would consider this book to be in that category of "to be read often".
At the outset, Rick makes no apologies for stating that this book will guide you on a spiritual journey, where by the end you will now Gods purpose for your life, and you'll understand the big picture - how it all fits together.
In a short time from now I will be going through A Purpose Driven Life. I have set up a blog so I can publish my thoughts and consequences of this book. You can follow my journey HERE and I would welcome your comments (so long as they are publishable!).
UPDATE
It will now be slightly longer than a short while due to other commitments....
Watch this space....
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Wednesday 6 June 2007
A New Job
Since we were married, Jules and I have been praying for a baby... no, no, sorry, that's for later, we've been praying that Jules would find a day job to replace the shift work she's doing now. Over the last couple of days, the place where she works has come up trumps and offered her a job in a different section in the same department, and on days, sort of 9-5.
Gods provision for us has been beyond what we deserve. How richly we feel blessed. God deserves all the praise for this. This has come so quickly, and everyone at Jules work are happy with it. Totally out of the blue. As a friend recently reminded us, this is a situation of "God suddenly..." Amen.
Jules also passed her approval assessment.
Gods provision for us has been beyond what we deserve. How richly we feel blessed. God deserves all the praise for this. This has come so quickly, and everyone at Jules work are happy with it. Totally out of the blue. As a friend recently reminded us, this is a situation of "God suddenly..." Amen.
Jules also passed her approval assessment.
Tuesday 5 June 2007
Leeds Castle
Leeds Castle is in Kent, just outside Maidstone. It is a beautiful place. Here are some photos for you to view:
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Friday 1 June 2007
Ashburnham Place (the weekend away)
What a weekend. Jules and I went to Ashburnham Place with Jubilee church for the weekend. This was a weekend organised and (gratefully) subsidised by the church for the purpose of getting to know each other. I think it was a great success. Jules and I had time not only to meet new poeple and friends, but also to have "time out" because both of us felt that we hadn't stopped since before we were married 80 days ago (as of 29th May). Ashburnham Place is a wonderful place. Situated near Battle in East sussex in 200 acres of beautiful open and wooded land.
We set off on Friday morning and negotiated the QE2 bridge (traffic) and went on to Leeds Castle for lunch. I had lived near the castle for a year some time ago but never visited, so this was new for me and Jules. We didn't have too much time, but enough to have a brief look round the grounds, have some lunch and take a few pictures. It is a beautiful place to visit and we will be returning. We had lunch on a lawn overlooking the moat and the castle. Chocolate box picture! Then onto Battle where we wondered round the Battlefield where Harold and William fought with their troops, Harold was killed and William became king. The rest is as they say is history... On the site William had built a large church with the alter stone positioned where Harold fell, and in commemoration of those who fell at the battle. An interesting place. There is now a school on the site, but you can still walk round.
Ashburnham Place is a stunning place. The drive seems to go on for ages through woodland and then over an old stone bridge spanning a narrow section of the lake, up to the house. A large impressive building. One of the buildings was built by Capability Brown. The time there was wonderful. Jules and I had a comfortable room with basin and shared shower/bath/toilet and tea/coffee making facilities. The staff there went the extra mile to welcome us all and to make our stay wonderful and being in the background was just perfect.
Our time there was spent making new friends, and getting to know old friends better. Having this amount of time and knowing you didn't have to rush off somewhere was really helpful. Time is one of those valuable commodities that here had no real value because the pressures of the world were no-where to be seen. Wonderful. The times of worship and prayer was stunning. There was also time for fun games and football, crafts for the kids (and parents) or just "time out" to reflect on "life" or whatever. Saturday evening consisted of a quiz. Great fun.
The church is growing at such a rate (praise God) that another weekend like this is unlikely as there doesn't seem to be anywhere that could accommodate such numbers in such a setting. Shame. Maybe we should all go camping! or do a small "Stoneleigh"?
We set off on Friday morning and negotiated the QE2 bridge (traffic) and went on to Leeds Castle for lunch. I had lived near the castle for a year some time ago but never visited, so this was new for me and Jules. We didn't have too much time, but enough to have a brief look round the grounds, have some lunch and take a few pictures. It is a beautiful place to visit and we will be returning. We had lunch on a lawn overlooking the moat and the castle. Chocolate box picture! Then onto Battle where we wondered round the Battlefield where Harold and William fought with their troops, Harold was killed and William became king. The rest is as they say is history... On the site William had built a large church with the alter stone positioned where Harold fell, and in commemoration of those who fell at the battle. An interesting place. There is now a school on the site, but you can still walk round.
Ashburnham Place is a stunning place. The drive seems to go on for ages through woodland and then over an old stone bridge spanning a narrow section of the lake, up to the house. A large impressive building. One of the buildings was built by Capability Brown. The time there was wonderful. Jules and I had a comfortable room with basin and shared shower/bath/toilet and tea/coffee making facilities. The staff there went the extra mile to welcome us all and to make our stay wonderful and being in the background was just perfect.
Our time there was spent making new friends, and getting to know old friends better. Having this amount of time and knowing you didn't have to rush off somewhere was really helpful. Time is one of those valuable commodities that here had no real value because the pressures of the world were no-where to be seen. Wonderful. The times of worship and prayer was stunning. There was also time for fun games and football, crafts for the kids (and parents) or just "time out" to reflect on "life" or whatever. Saturday evening consisted of a quiz. Great fun.
The church is growing at such a rate (praise God) that another weekend like this is unlikely as there doesn't seem to be anywhere that could accommodate such numbers in such a setting. Shame. Maybe we should all go camping! or do a small "Stoneleigh"?
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Thursday 24 May 2007
Renewable energy
Is nuclear power generation the way to go. I don't think so. It may have a zero carbon balance, but it has a huge radiation balance. A number of years ago, Margaret Thatcher, then PM, instigated a paper into renewable energy generation, headed by the then head of nuclear energy. The report published by the government apparently wasn't the report submitted. The submitted report stated that "Salters Duck" wave power generation was the most environmentally friendly. A program shown on Channel 4 went into this. It's a shame that no-one seems to remember except me. May be I should start a campaign to resurrect "Salters Duck".
What do you think?
What do you think?
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Political Hypocrisy
Politicians wonder why no-one takes them seriously when they keep changing their minds for no apparent reason except for may be power, or financial gain. It stinks.
The government stated a little while back that nuclear energy was not the way ahead (Harriet Harman), yet now they say it is (Alistair Darling), when ALL the evidence says NO, not just environmental but also financial. I am seriously thinking of withholding some of may taxes because of the incompitence of this government.
When Margaret Thatcher stood down and John Major won the party election to become leader of the Conservative party, Gordon Brown said that there should be a general election because the country had voted for Mrs Thatcher to become PM as leader of the Conservative Party and not John Major. Now that Gordon Brown will become leader of New Labour is there going to be a general election like when John Major became PM..... I think you can guess the answer. Mr Browns answer when questioned about this was that you say different things when you're in opposition. Well, of course, now that he is on his way to number 10, he is not going to let anyone get in his way. And there's me thinking that they were elected to SERVE the people... silly me.
The government stated a little while back that nuclear energy was not the way ahead (Harriet Harman), yet now they say it is (Alistair Darling), when ALL the evidence says NO, not just environmental but also financial. I am seriously thinking of withholding some of may taxes because of the incompitence of this government.
When Margaret Thatcher stood down and John Major won the party election to become leader of the Conservative party, Gordon Brown said that there should be a general election because the country had voted for Mrs Thatcher to become PM as leader of the Conservative Party and not John Major. Now that Gordon Brown will become leader of New Labour is there going to be a general election like when John Major became PM..... I think you can guess the answer. Mr Browns answer when questioned about this was that you say different things when you're in opposition. Well, of course, now that he is on his way to number 10, he is not going to let anyone get in his way. And there's me thinking that they were elected to SERVE the people... silly me.
What is this all about?
I was going to post an item I have been writing on life and death, but I just haven't been able to get it right, I'm just not happy with it. Then I got to thinking about this blog and what it is here for, what is it's purpose. And in essence, I think I would like this blog to be a small comment on my life. Just to post little thing and may be big things that have been happening in my life and how God is amongst it all, along with some view points. So that is what will follow....
Too be continued.....
Too be continued.....
Tuesday 22 May 2007
Back from Africa
On a sunny Sunday a few weeks back Jules and I flew out to South Africa for her moms memorial service in Pietermaritzburg. The flights there interesting in that on the 767 Nationwide flight from Gatwick to Jo'burg (now OT something?) was quite good except for the bumpiness towards the end of the flight. The flight from J'burg to P'maritzburg was in a 30 seater BAe J41 twin turbo-prop plane. An experience. The "comet vomit" as it locally known, was a good flight. The landing in P'burg was exciting as the runway is only just long enough for this aircraft. One bump and then we were down, all brakes full on, reverse thrusters et al and stop. We made it!
The weather was good and the emotions where high and there was an underlying tension. Meeting Graham again with Bret and Lisa was good but emotional. There were tears and hugs. A sense of a family united, coming together albeit in grief, but it was something that they have done before and for me a privilege to be a part of. The next few days where of final preparations, who was to say what and when and if at all. Lisa said she would give a dedication/tribute and I was asked to read a psalm (121 one of Eleanor's favourites). Graham also was to say a few words. Barry, the pastor was to lead to service and give a short talk.. On the Tuesday afternoon we all went to the botanical garden in Pietermaritzburg just to have some time out and be together. It was a delightful afternoon, even to dogs enjoyed themselves. I'm not going to go into details, only to say that Wednesday was an emotional good day where, I felt, that the Lord blessed the day.
Then there was an air of relief, a "now we can move on". But as in these situations, this isn't always as easy as it seems. Now the questions of why? why now? why my mom? why? why? why?... These questions are some of the hardest to answer, mainly because the answer is out of our reach. May be with 20/20 hindsight will there be any semblance of an answer. But moving on we must. The world wont wait for us, no matter how much we wish!
We have been back for about two weeks now. The flights back where a little disappointing. The Comet Vomit was uneventful, which gave me time to actually enjoy flying over the landscape of South Africa. A slower pace of flying which has a lot gong for it. The flight from Jo'burg to Gatwick was a pain. Lisa, Jules and I had the 3 central seats, no real problem, but in front of us where two ladies (and I use the term loosely) who where under the impression the everything revolved around them. They just didn't settle. Most travellers flying on a night flight seem to take into account the other travellers, but not these two. After jockeying for position and status between themselves and the patient cabin crew they did put their heads down. The seats are not the most comfortable. Mike, a dear friend, collected us from the airport and dropped us home safely.
All our friends, many from Jubilee Church, have been great, offering support and giving us space. Both being important. I must mention that our employers have been good in giving us time off for this, but (strange that there always seems to be a "but" with regard to employers!) but there is no similarity as to how many days compassionate leave one can have and as to who they consider to be "family". My employer doesn't include your wifes/husbands parents as family requiring compassionate leave. In these days of a degraded society and community I shouldn't be surprised, I am disappointed however. I am grateful for the time they did give me.
When Julia and I married we became members of each others family. In my humble opinion there shouldn't be any difference or distinction between the two sets of parents.
So, now we are back, and now we can get down to learning to enjoy living with each other, not that it wasn't before, just with so much going on it doesn't seem as though we had touched down since we wed.Now we can get on with living....
The weather was good and the emotions where high and there was an underlying tension. Meeting Graham again with Bret and Lisa was good but emotional. There were tears and hugs. A sense of a family united, coming together albeit in grief, but it was something that they have done before and for me a privilege to be a part of. The next few days where of final preparations, who was to say what and when and if at all. Lisa said she would give a dedication/tribute and I was asked to read a psalm (121 one of Eleanor's favourites). Graham also was to say a few words. Barry, the pastor was to lead to service and give a short talk.. On the Tuesday afternoon we all went to the botanical garden in Pietermaritzburg just to have some time out and be together. It was a delightful afternoon, even to dogs enjoyed themselves. I'm not going to go into details, only to say that Wednesday was an emotional good day where, I felt, that the Lord blessed the day.
Then there was an air of relief, a "now we can move on". But as in these situations, this isn't always as easy as it seems. Now the questions of why? why now? why my mom? why? why? why?... These questions are some of the hardest to answer, mainly because the answer is out of our reach. May be with 20/20 hindsight will there be any semblance of an answer. But moving on we must. The world wont wait for us, no matter how much we wish!
We have been back for about two weeks now. The flights back where a little disappointing. The Comet Vomit was uneventful, which gave me time to actually enjoy flying over the landscape of South Africa. A slower pace of flying which has a lot gong for it. The flight from Jo'burg to Gatwick was a pain. Lisa, Jules and I had the 3 central seats, no real problem, but in front of us where two ladies (and I use the term loosely) who where under the impression the everything revolved around them. They just didn't settle. Most travellers flying on a night flight seem to take into account the other travellers, but not these two. After jockeying for position and status between themselves and the patient cabin crew they did put their heads down. The seats are not the most comfortable. Mike, a dear friend, collected us from the airport and dropped us home safely.
All our friends, many from Jubilee Church, have been great, offering support and giving us space. Both being important. I must mention that our employers have been good in giving us time off for this, but (strange that there always seems to be a "but" with regard to employers!) but there is no similarity as to how many days compassionate leave one can have and as to who they consider to be "family". My employer doesn't include your wifes/husbands parents as family requiring compassionate leave. In these days of a degraded society and community I shouldn't be surprised, I am disappointed however. I am grateful for the time they did give me.
When Julia and I married we became members of each others family. In my humble opinion there shouldn't be any difference or distinction between the two sets of parents.
So, now we are back, and now we can get down to learning to enjoy living with each other, not that it wasn't before, just with so much going on it doesn't seem as though we had touched down since we wed.Now we can get on with living....
Sunday 13 May 2007
Tuesday 24 April 2007
All in a dream?
Since the passing of Eleanor (Jules's mom) I have had time to think about where I am and how far I have come. When someone close to you, or to a close one, dies, life seems to slow down and almost stop. You have the time to dwell on things that you wouldn't normally. And for me that would be the last 18 months. They have whizzed along at a tremendous pace, a bit like being in a dream. In November 2005 I had plans to go to Australia. These I cancelled (after, I must say, talking and taking advice from valued friends) because it appeared that God wasn't in it, and really I didn't want to do something that God didn't want me to do. Since that time, life has taken hold of me! I met a wonderful young woman, Julia, who is now my wife, we have a home, I have a new job, and car to get me there and back! It's all been wonderful, and I give God the glory for it.
But, and its a big but, because it hasn't been plain sailing at it were.We have had problems along the way. All quite minor ones compared with what happened last week when Eleanor passed away. That really was a shock and something that Jules and I are still coming to terms with, one day at a time. But we know she is with the Lord, which is a far better place to be. And we will miss her. As Job said "The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away" and although I was only just getting to know Eleanor, I valued the time I had with her, and I think, saw some of the special qualities God had given her. She was truly a special lady.
Some days I feel as though someone is going to pinch me and I'm going to wake up! Even though I've had some absolutely wonderful times, and some truly testing times, I am so glad it isn't a dream and I have lived it. I have had some experiences that I would have preferred not to have experienced, but the last 18 months isn't one of them. Why? I hear you ask when Eleanor had died last week? Well, it is because I can see (may be with 20/20 hindsight) that God has been involved in my life and that of my dear wife and I certainly would not want to change that. What ever God has for me is for my own good because He will not test me beyond that which I can endure. He will give me the strength to carry on and get through to the other side.
I am so looking forward to the rest of my life with Jules because we don't know what's ahead and I like surprises especially when God is involved! We can make plans, but without God, its like building a house on sand, but with God its like building a house on rock.
But, and its a big but, because it hasn't been plain sailing at it were.We have had problems along the way. All quite minor ones compared with what happened last week when Eleanor passed away. That really was a shock and something that Jules and I are still coming to terms with, one day at a time. But we know she is with the Lord, which is a far better place to be. And we will miss her. As Job said "The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away" and although I was only just getting to know Eleanor, I valued the time I had with her, and I think, saw some of the special qualities God had given her. She was truly a special lady.
Some days I feel as though someone is going to pinch me and I'm going to wake up! Even though I've had some absolutely wonderful times, and some truly testing times, I am so glad it isn't a dream and I have lived it. I have had some experiences that I would have preferred not to have experienced, but the last 18 months isn't one of them. Why? I hear you ask when Eleanor had died last week? Well, it is because I can see (may be with 20/20 hindsight) that God has been involved in my life and that of my dear wife and I certainly would not want to change that. What ever God has for me is for my own good because He will not test me beyond that which I can endure. He will give me the strength to carry on and get through to the other side.
I am so looking forward to the rest of my life with Jules because we don't know what's ahead and I like surprises especially when God is involved! We can make plans, but without God, its like building a house on sand, but with God its like building a house on rock.
All in a dream?
Since the passing of Eleanor (Jules's mom) I have had time to think about where I am and how far I have come. When someone close to you, or to a close one, dies, life seems to slow down and almost stop. You have the time to dwell on things that you wouldn't normally. And for me that would be the last 18 months. They have whizzed along at a tremendous pace, a bit like being in a dream. In November 2005 I had plans to go to Australia. These I cancelled (after, I must say, talking and taking advice from valued friends) because it appeared that God wasn't in it, and really I didn't want to do something that God didn't want me to do. Since that time, life has taken hold of me! I met a wonderful young woman, Julia, who is now my wife, we have a home, I have a new job, and car to get me there and back! It's all been wonderful, and I give God the glory for it.
But, and its a big but, because it hasn't been plain sailing at it were.We have had problems along the way. All quite minor ones compared with what happened last week when Eleanor passed away. That really was a shock and something that Jules and I are still coming to terms with, one day at a time. But we know she is with the Lord, which is a far better place to be. And we will miss her. As Job said "The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away" and although I was only just getting to know Eleanor, I valued the time I had with her, and I think, saw some of the special qualities God had given her. She was truly a special lady.
Some days I feel as though someone is going to pinch me and I'm going to wake up! Even though I've had some absolutely wonderful times, and some truly testing times, I am so glad it isn't a dream and I have lived it. I have had some experiences that I would have preferred not to have experienced, but the last 18 months isn't one of them. Why? I hear you ask when Eleanor had died last week? Well, it is because I can see (may be with 20/20 hindsight) that God has been involved in my life and that of my dear wife and I certainly would not want to change that. What ever God has for me is for my own good because He will not test me beyond that which I can endure. He will give me the strength to carry on and get through to the other side.
I am so looking forward to the rest of my life with Jules because we don't know what's ahead and I like surprises especially when God is involved! We can make plans, but without God, its like building a house on sand, but with God its like building a house on rock.
But, and its a big but, because it hasn't been plain sailing at it were.We have had problems along the way. All quite minor ones compared with what happened last week when Eleanor passed away. That really was a shock and something that Jules and I are still coming to terms with, one day at a time. But we know she is with the Lord, which is a far better place to be. And we will miss her. As Job said "The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away" and although I was only just getting to know Eleanor, I valued the time I had with her, and I think, saw some of the special qualities God had given her. She was truly a special lady.
Some days I feel as though someone is going to pinch me and I'm going to wake up! Even though I've had some absolutely wonderful times, and some truly testing times, I am so glad it isn't a dream and I have lived it. I have had some experiences that I would have preferred not to have experienced, but the last 18 months isn't one of them. Why? I hear you ask when Eleanor had died last week? Well, it is because I can see (may be with 20/20 hindsight) that God has been involved in my life and that of my dear wife and I certainly would not want to change that. What ever God has for me is for my own good because He will not test me beyond that which I can endure. He will give me the strength to carry on and get through to the other side.
I am so looking forward to the rest of my life with Jules because we don't know what's ahead and I like surprises especially when God is involved! We can make plans, but without God, its like building a house on sand, but with God its like building a house on rock.
Friday 20 April 2007
Delay
I am taking a break from this blog due to a family bereavement. Will be back soon with some new stuff on a regular basis hopefully to get you thinking about life in the restaurant at the edge of the universe.
Monday 2 April 2007
Back to work
Jules and I have now been back from honeymoon for a couple of weeks now and it feels as though we just haven't stopped. Jules's car was classed as a "right-off" due to an accident. We were offered a car but had to turn it down as the insurance company thought Jules to be too young and wouldn't insure her! So we've gone out and bought a Nissan Micra. Collection is on Thursday.
We've also had the joy of sorting all my stuff out and making a house a home, which Jules as been doing most of the work and doing a great job too.
We've also had the joy of sorting all my stuff out and making a house a home, which Jules as been doing most of the work and doing a great job too.
Friday 16 March 2007
The Honeymoon- Me and the wife
Jules and I are now in France. Have been since the 11th of March. We started in Paris and moved on to the Loire Valley for a few days. From there we have travelled to the coast and north a bit and now are in a place called Quimperle. The hotel is quite good but haven't seen the town yet.
So far we have had a wonderful time. The weather has been good. Bright and sunny days, and cool nights, which didn't bother us as we were tucked up in bed!!
The people of France have been very kind considering that neither Jules or I can speak very much french. We have got by and achieved various degrees of communication. It has been fun, even for the French who do have a sense of humour!
The mini is going great guns. Jules has been doing a good job of navigating along roads that don't exist, at least not on the map, and helping to overtake the slower cars and lorries. The mini has however sustained an injury, a cracked windscreen, which we are hoping will last the trip before being replaced, the windscreen that is, not the mini, might just be a bit excessive to replace the car because of a cracked windscreen....
Only a few days left so its off to bed.... yippy
For more photos see James and Jules web site...
Tuesday 6 March 2007
The final week
It's now Tuesday morning and the rain is lashing down. The countdown to my wedding has started properly now. Four days to go and still so much to do... Tonight we are having dinner with some friends, who happen to be my "adopted parents" in that I've adopted them and thankfully them me! It should make a welcome break in the hectic lead-up to 'The Day". I'm glad this is the only one I'll do, weddings, that is.
It's now Thursday and I've just finished work for the week and the next two. The dinner on Tuesday was good.
Yesterday we had a rehearsal at the church which went well until Jules couldn't find her purse. We searched everywhere but it was gone... something we didn't really need just now, but life goes on.
Today and tomorrow we are doing all the little things before the BIG DAY.
It's now Thursday and I've just finished work for the week and the next two. The dinner on Tuesday was good.
Yesterday we had a rehearsal at the church which went well until Jules couldn't find her purse. We searched everywhere but it was gone... something we didn't really need just now, but life goes on.
Today and tomorrow we are doing all the little things before the BIG DAY.
Sunday 4 March 2007
Plans...
Graham and Eleanor are here for a wedding. Not just any wedding, but the wedding of their eldest daughter to me. The plans are going well, and if everything goes to plan, we should be wed by midday next Saturday.
Saturday 3 March 2007
Visitors From South Africa
Jules and I, and Jules sister Lisa went off to Heathrow early this morning to collect the "In-Laws-to-be", Graham and Eleanor. They touched down at 6:25 am and come through at about 7 am. A quiet drive back to Cheshunt along the M25 with no hiccups saw an hour pass by. Lisa got some O2 sim cards for their phones and got them going.
Its good to see them again. I last saw them when I visited South Africa a few months ago, and to hear thier quaint accents made me smile...
Its good to see them again. I last saw them when I visited South Africa a few months ago, and to hear thier quaint accents made me smile...
Thursday 1 March 2007
Just a Quickie
I now have a "Blogger Client" software, which means I can now write up some posts, save them on my computer and then upload them when the mood takes my fancy, and I'm on line of course.
So there you have it. The bit of software I'm using is Ecto, for the mac. As I've only just got it working, I don't really know what it can do...
Time will tell
Have a good week and weekend
So there you have it. The bit of software I'm using is Ecto, for the mac. As I've only just got it working, I don't really know what it can do...
Time will tell
Have a good week and weekend
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